As you move through life, discovering the truth of “this isn’t me” over and over again, your openness may be energetically exhausting so it is important to have your own space where you can relax. As a Reflector, you need to have people in your life who will serve as your sounding board, not because you need advice (you don’t), but because you need to hear yourself talk about what you are feeling about your choices. During the 29 days, Reflectors should talk with different people about decisions. Reflectors are lunar beings, tied to the lunar cycle, so their Strategy (and sometimes the challenge) is to wait 29 days before making any major decisions. By taking the time to make important decisions and knowing that the time spent on considering their resolves is how their success is completed, they will realize how vital it is to keep from letting anyone pressure them. What Reflectors must know and logically understand is that any kind of pressure they experienced is detrimental to their health. Reflectors, because of the length of time it takes for them to have clarity, don’t transition quickly and need time to make major life changes such as leaving home, moving, starting a new job, even getting married. The consistency of the people they know makes them feel safe. It is common for Reflectors to have lifelong friends and to even have trouble disentangling themselves from the energy of their parents (their family of origin) simply because Reflectors experience so much inconsistently. Reflectors need to have people whose aura they know. Sometimes the life of a Reflector can get “hijacked” by the energy of the people surrounding them, and they can lose their own direction in life.Ĭonsistency is vital for the Reflector. Reflectors often struggle with “merging” in their personal relationships if they don’t understand the nature of their openness and their capacity for deep empathy.
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But that very openness grants the potential for a great wisdom and insight into the potential for humanity (and yourself) if you learn how to work with it correctly. Not knowing the mechanics of your design, you, Reflector may feel deeply disappointed in life. Total openness may make you, at times almost invisible to others. Under these circumstances, making decisions can feel easier and less disappointing.
Reflectors, with their openness and taking in other people’s definition, must wait 29 days before making any major decisions – no matter how certain they feel about something in the moment.įor Reflectors, you have to be in the right geographical location, the place that feels good and like “home” for your life to feel “right.” When you are in the right place, you meet the right people, are part of the right community, and your life feels aligned. Going through the entire cycle gives them the power to be able to realize solutions and right choices. Reflectors have to experience their choice inside of themselves over time. It’s not the same as making a decision with the mind. They experience a choice or decision over a cycle of the Moon (29 days). For them, it’s the most unnatural thing, because Reflectors don’t necessarily make decisions. The most uncomfortable thing for Reflectors is pressure, especially the pressure to make decisions. Because of this, at times they may feel inadequate and think that they don’t fit anywhere. This type of emotion causes Reflectors to require more attention than most all other people (and Types). Reflectors can also suffer deep disappointment when having to wait and live through the energy of others. So, sometimes they may feel alone and misunderstood. Reflectors have considerably different life experiences that all of the other Types.
That’s why it’s very essential for you carefully choose your friends and partners they will have a huge impact on your feelings and experience of yourself. You may then get all the ideas and a sound sense of knowing where you’re going in life, and then it’s gone again, and so forth. One instant you may feel extremely emotional while the next moment it’s gone. Reflectors are like a mirror, and the reflection of other people continually change their perception. Because there are no defined centers by design, Reflectors take in the energy of everybody else, seeing the world through others eyes, sampling a frequency of energy and reflecting it back to the other.
Reflectors are fully open to the world and to others.
Reflectors have all Centers “open” and their chart looks almost “empty.” Reflectors are a minority-around 1% of the population are Reflector types.